Providence means we wait for perfect timing

by Missy on December 9, 2011

OK

It seems like our house is going to sell.

I’m whispering, as I am afraid I might jinx it.   It almost fell through last week.

The sale of this house did not go the way we thought it would.

We thought we were selling a really awesome piece of property, one where we had been very happy, and where we had made a mountain of improvements.   And where life can be rich and sweet for another family.

How utterly gobsmacked we were when it didn’t sell at top price the first week on the market.

But it didn’t.    And the price dropped and dropped and dropped again.

And there is a very long list of great good that has come to our family, because of our home’s failure to sell.

We have faced some fears and idols and unreasonable expectations head-on.   And we have experienced some financial grindings that were really unfamiliar to us.  And as much as I didn’t want it, I am really thankful to be in the midst of it.  At Christmas.

But, again, in whispered tones, I will say that it seems our house has sold, closing in 45 days, maybe.

And the God of the very universe is aware and is caring for us through what feels like a thin and challenging time.  And He is looking after us with tender kindness.   I find that there are lovely and dear sisters and brothers coming across my path……just at the right moment……with just the perfect word of encouragement or of reminder that God is good all the time.

But, I was talking to my kids this morning, and we were all seeing that when life is challenging, we are facing temptations that are new for us.  We are all up against temptations to complain, or to do less than our best, or to meet our commitments at their most minimal requirements, and to long for another situation, which is really a big fat lack of thankfulness.    So that’s what we prayed for here today, that we can be thankful for the real riches we have (as they are huge) and remember that often our expectations are unreasonable.   We do have a savior who knows what’s really needed, and how best to give it to us.

And the next step will be to find a new home to buy.  And I have to say here, that this home purchase is really huge for me.

I have never lived in any house for more that seven years, in all my life.  I have such a longing for a home of my own…..and in my little heart I am so hoping that this next house will be my HOME.    Like, maybe I will not leave it until I go to heaven.   That’s a fair bit of pressure to put on a real estate search.   But, right or wrong,  I think that’s what I’m doing.

I’m waiting for my home to come up in front of me and make itself known.  And I am so thankful for Jon now.  He is much less passionate about this purchase.    He’ll be the level head that prevails.

So  I am l pretty giddy about this next step.

 

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by Missy on November 28, 2011

So, after that last blog entry, I couldn’t much bring myself to write another until some amazing real estate event occurred.

I guess you might say that such an event has now happened.  It appears that our house will close in two months, as we are now under agreement.  And  I am happy for the purchasing family, as they have gotten the very deal of the century.  I hope they will be happy there, as we certainly were.  The neighbors are the real treat there, and this family does not yet know what a marvellous community they have fallen in to.    They think they are buying a house, but they are actually getting a whole new family.   People we love.

And I am thankful it’s  going to be someone’s home.  It was such a nice home for us.

 

 

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Every day, or almost every day, I find myself at a traffic light, or a toll booth, or in the frozen food section, or the paint store,  or the emergency room or on  a long remote island with no internet connection, or a Civil War Battle field, or pulling more and more weeds from  the garden, or maybe in my attic throwing everything we ever collected away…..
and I am very often composing a blog post in my mind.    So, I am really a very active blogger, in my own cosmic and ineffectual way.

I would like to come back and blog here for a while.     But I’ve been gone so long that I have  to make myself a new bloggy  path  now, as the way is all covered over with dead undergrowth.    I think that I would like to explain some of  what’s been happening, but it will take  more than one day.   Or more than one post.

Here is the beginning……  We were making some big decisions hereabouts.   Well, we were actually all done deciding a couple of months ago.   But once we stopped quietly weighing options and looking to see which way we should turn, then it got crazy busy, and no time to write even a grocery list.

(It was so busy and I was so tired and sort of unravelled   that,   just to give you an idea,  on Easter morning, I found myself all dressed and ready to go, and as I checked the mirror …one last time…. I noticed that my dress was    i.n.s.i.d.e.   o.u.t.      Appalling!!!!!)

But, I digress.

What was decided was that we are moving back to the  U.S.A.   (woohooo)
And that we are going to do it in typical Ween style, which demands that we move clear across the continent, for the third time.   We move across the continent every seven years.    I have written the blog post on that very topic, in my mind, several times.     And now, in 2011,  we are moving to Spokane, Washington……and I would really love it if this was the last move of my life.

So, there has been no small flurry of activity here.
This family of mine has done the most astonishing job of decluttering and organizing I have ever witnessed.
We began a year ago, and have gotten our home into such a delightful state of organization and tidyness, that most people think they are in the wrong house when they visit.
Once we were tidy,  we put our house on the market to sell.
And, wonder of all, so did six other people in our small little villagey/ neighborhood.   I have never seen so many “For Sale” signs all clustered together, unless they were stacked behind a Century 21 office.    I have had people stop in front of my house (as I am pulling weeds) to ask me “Why is everybody moving out….are they putting a nuclear waste dump in the area?”    And the answer to that question is that in the flukiest sort of way, a whole mess of us have to all move at the same time.  It’s really just coincidence……or God.

So we are just all excited.   Because we know this is how God does really amazing things.  First, you need a bit of pressure, like a famine or a siege or a time crunch (we have that), and then you need something like a giant or a giant army or a glut of houses for sale all jammed up together to make it all look impossible (we also have that), and then you need to look for how God has worked before, pray for Him to work the same way today, and then grab a seat and wait for the amazing thing to happen.

So, keep your eyes peeled, something is about to happen.   We have six weeks before we need to leave.  Either we sell this house and all move west as a family, or we do not sell and Jon goes ahead without the other seven of us.

I know what I’m praying for.    And I am waiting in great expectation for something really amazing to happen.

 

 

 

 

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Stunt Blogger Needed

by Missy on March 24, 2011

It’s been quite a while since a fresh blog post pushed its way through the dead undergrowth of my mind. And it would seem like nobody cared. But I got an email yesterday asking if I had perhaps fallen and could not get up .
I was so heartened at the idea of having a fan. Well, it was a friend, and that’s far better.

Anyhow, what’s going on at my house is this: I am getting my house ready to sell, packing boxes of stuff to move or give away, (or just hide while the house is for sale).
I’m looking at real estate on the internet.
Having a surprising case of shingles and watching one child for signs of chicken pox.
Adamantly doing at least five hours of school every day even if it kills us.
Cleaning out closets and going to the dump once a week.
Waiting for spring.
Getting all set to take the chicken pox exposed kid to the US consulate so we can make her an American citizen (Woo Hoo!)
Preparing to cook a half a goat on my barbecue tomorrow for the Mexican dinner at book club.
And there were shirts to iron, airplane tickets to purchase, home repair receipts to locate, a broken washing machine and a trip to the laudromat, and a few inches of snow which has my van immobilized in the lower garage.

Wouldn’t you think I could find an interesting blog post someplace in all that?
But in order to write anything, I must first have some quiet little minutes. And at the moment, or for the past months, there is absolutely no quiet at all at my house. My neighbour says there is a full moon perched permanently over our roof.
Even now, there are people practicing on piano and electric keyboard, there is a baritone recitation of the greatest hits from Henry V happening in the kitchen and little heads keep popping in at my office door to ask questions like “Can you come help with the cat? He fell off the window and all the curtains are on the floor.”

I used to think of myself as one of those people who requires large doses of quiet solitary time to think and process things. Apparently, I missed my calling there.

But all this flurry of noise and activity is good providence, and I am watching God at work in my house doing AMAZING big things.
We are moving, we are learning, we are getting organized, we are enduring some challenges, and we are working together like a good team. All is loud, all is in motion, all horizontal surfaces are covered with stuff to be packed, and all is well.

So that’s where I am. Thankful and a bit buried in life.

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But, here’s something for all you mothers of girls-growing-up. A very helpful video as we enter the days of courtship and all the heartache that comes with it.
We love these Harry Enfield guys!

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